Getting nervous

My surgery is the day after tomorrow... I am starting to get really nervous. Everyone keeps telling me horror stories about how bad it's going to be. I'm trying to just be as calm as possible, but people for some reason feel the need to try to scare the hell out of me. Although, I spoke with a girl today that had it done at 22 and said it wasn't that bad. That was a nice change of pace.

I have a lot to do before my surgery. I am in a panic that my house/kids/job will go to hell while I am out of commission. It is stressing me out more than the fear of pain is.